TheBigBingTheory | Women - Have a life. Don’t let some man be the center of your universe. Your life should contain many interesting and fulfilling activities that have NOTHING to do with your relationship. It is not healthy or attractive to build your life around a man. Don’t be so available, have a life outside the relationship. Don’t get me wrong you should “be there” for your significant other but it is important to be a well rounded person also. You should have other things and people in your life. Men may come and go (even husbands) but the friendships you’ve built and the accomplishments you’ve made, those are the things that really matter.

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